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  • Family,  Love

    Happy Birthday, Reese!

    August 25, 2023 /

    One Reese is 1. Happy first anniversary of her day of birth! Do you remember that age when everything is still a possibility, no mistakes have been made, and we…

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  • California,  Family,  Love,  Memories

    California Dreamin’

    November 25, 2020 /

    Erin, Mike, and I converge on Sean’s house in Los Angeles in late October. After we three travelers settle in, we start to plan our California coastal drive from LA…

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  • Family,  Friends,  Humanity,  Love,  Nursing Homes

    Mask it.

    August 5, 2020 /

    Welcome back. It’s my first week back after three months when the nursing homes locked their doors to everyone but truly essential personnel. I unload my car — foldable cart…

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  • Family,  Friends,  Lessons,  Love

    Financial Fitness

    March 26, 2019 /

    Maria’s 2019 Goals: Get my financial world in order. See number 1. What better time to address your financial health than with the approach of Tax Day, April 15th. This…

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  • Mare and Tora
    Birthday,  Family,  Love,  Type 1 Diabetes

    Happy Birthday, Cora!

    February 28, 2019 /

    These tributes begin with the eldest members of the family and will end with the youngest. Cora is the last accolade, but first in our hearts. (Edit: Reese was born in 2022…

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  • Birthday,  Family

    Happy Birthday, Mike!

    January 3, 2019 /

    In my car, I keep a book called If, which is a compilation of moral questions to incite conversation. I like to use it on road trips. One question is:…

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  • Sean Maria ages 7 and 4
    Birthday,  California,  Family

    Happy Birthday, Sean!

    December 13, 2018 /

    Sean doesn’t like when my family tells stories over and over again, nor does he like to talk about himself. Hold on, Sean. Here we go. When I was three…

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  • MariaErin
    Birthday,  Family,  Lessons,  Love

    Happy Birthday, Erin!

    September 18, 2018 /

    I remember when my parents told Sean and me that they were pregnant with Erin. They called us to come inside from playing in the snow. “You are going to…

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  • John Higgins in his cowboy hat standing in front of a lake
    Birthday,  Family,  Lessons,  Love,  Pennsylvania

    Happy Birthday, Dad!

    August 13, 2018 /

    My Dad’s birthday is one day after my Mom’s. They are the same age for exactly one day. My Dad didn’t have the same request for writing down special memories…

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  • Birthday,  Family,  Lessons,  Love,  Pennsylvania

    Happy Birthday, Mom!

    August 12, 2018 /

    Whenever I release a new blog post, my mom is the first one to read it, always sending me inspirational emails. “Wonderful post again. You are so special.” or “This…

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  • Maria, Meg, Heather, Kelsey Diabetes Diagnosis Telling Family
    Family,  Food,  Type 1 Diabetes

    #T1DLooksLikeMe

    July 13, 2018 /

    When someone learns that I have Type 1 Diabetes, my usual response is “Yes, yes, I do, but, no worries, it’s not a big deal, I am fine with it.”…

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  • Abby,  Airbnb,  Family,  Friends,  Memories,  National Park,  Tennessee

    Nashville, McAfee Knob and HOME

    January 20, 2018 /

    The Music Highway is the road (I-40) between Memphis and Nashville. It is so named because of the rich music history in both cities and on the path between them.…

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  • FaceTime screenshot of my niece, Cora and myselfFaceTime screenshot of my niece, Cora and myself
    Abby,  Family,  Friends,  Humanity,  Love,  Memories,  National Park

    In the Driver’s Seat

    January 6, 2018 /

    You may wonder about the logistics of traveling for an extended time, spending hours in my car. Generally, I store the necessities on the passenger side, within easy reach. My Yeti with my Chai…

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  • Family,  Friends,  Humanity,  Love,  Memories

    OCNJ

    January 3, 2018 /

    After skipping through the parking lot on my very last day working for the retail giant who bought my practice, my first destination is my family vacation. My immediate family…

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